Sunrise Feral Mode

Lately the best word to describe our life (especially my almost-10-month-old) is feral. Just when I think I’ve got things under control, life throws another curveball. Between keeping up with the house, getting back into work, chasing a very busy baby, and listening to middle school drama, I hit moments of being so overstimulated I don’t know if I want to cry, scream, or hit a giant mute button.

But even in the chaos, I wouldn’t trade it. In the middle of the wildness, God always gives me little reminders of just how blessed I am. I have two healthy, beautiful (and yes, feral) kids. And even if we’re living on super glue and survival mode right now, the important things are covered — they’re fed, clean, loved, and that’s enough.

I’m learning to let go of comparing myself to the “Pinterest-perfect moms” and instead focus on being the mom my kids need. It’s messy, it’s loud, it’s overwhelming… but it’s also love. And that’s real life. 

-A Farm Mother’s Try

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